There aren't a lot of Tech people on here, and those of you who are from Tech (and were either CS majors or Japanese students between 1999 and 2002-ish or involved with College Democrats) probably already know--but Adam Stevens (CS '04) was found dead in his apartment this morning. We don't know anything yet, though people suspect that it could be due to recent medical problems he's had, plus he just returned from a trip to India a couple of days ago.
This has me really, really shaken up--I hadn't kept in really good touch with him since graduation (he graduated 12 months before I did--I was at that ceremony and remember the huge, triumphant, relieved grin on his face when he walked), but in school he was one of my better friends, a friendly, funny, laid-back, charmingly nerdy, and compassionate guy I always had a lot of respect for and really enjoyed hanging out with. A complete sweetheart, a hard worker, a hard-core devotee to the things that were important to him...he also struggled with computer science, but he stuck it out and ended up graduating with his bachelors in CS. We also had many Japanese classes together, and he envied me for sticking with Japanese the way I envied him for sticking with CS. He worked so hard to make things work.
He was only 24 years old. He didn't deserve something as terrible and random as this to happen to someone as wonderful as he was--he'd worked so hard to get to where he was, and there was so much more in store for him. Work and school always kept him so busy...he deserved a wonderful and fulfilling life, a chance to take a deep breath, let it out, and really enjoy himself.
The last time I saw him was when we saw Episode 3 together over the summer, a few weeks before leaving for JET. It was the first time we'd seen each other in a really, really long time, and I wanted to see him one more time before going to Japan. We gave each other a really big hug as we parted ways outside the Regal Hollywood 24, and I invited him to come visit me in Japan any time he wanted. I regret not making more of an effort to see him--granted, he was always traveling and really busy with his job, and wasn't in Atlanta very often--but I am glad that I did get to see him that one time at least.
I found out when
jleepig k-mailed me right after I came home during my lunch break. I signed onto AIM and talked to her for a bit, and then called home and talked to my mom for a while, and in the process missed my bus for my elementary school (the class is at 3, but the only way to get there via public transportation in time for the class is a 12:45 bus)...I'd called because I wasn't sure if I should still go, because I didn't want to go back to work and start crying. But at the same time, it doesn't do any good to stay here and hope that I can hear more information. I've already heard the most important piece: Adam Michael Stevens passed away. He died, and he isn't coming back.
Rest in peace, Adam. I love you and miss you.